Once the lines are coiled and the kettle’s back on, the temptation is to let the passage slide into the locker with the wet foulies. Don’t. The sea’s a generous teacher, but she’s not big on repeating herself in a way you’ll enjoy.
A good debrief isn’t a courtroom and it isn’t a story hour. It’s the small, steady habit of writing down what actually happened while it’s still fresh, before opinions harden and details wash away. Keep it plain, keep it kind, and you’ll find the next departure gets easier in all the right places.