When someone goes over the side, the ocean gets very big very fast, and the boat suddenly feels smaller than it did a minute ago. Under power, you’ve got a tool that can bring you back to them quickly, and a hazard spinning under the stern that doesn’t care about good intentions.
The trick isn’t fancy boat handling. It’s keeping your eyes on the person, buying yourself time by bleeding off speed early, and making every turn and throttle change predictable. If you can arrive alongside slow, steady, and on purpose, you’re already ahead of the sea.
From there it’s seamanship: neutral when you’re close, no backing into trouble, and a calm, repeatable routine that still works when the deck is moving and everyone’s hands are shaking.